{"id":19649,"date":"2023-06-17T19:22:21","date_gmt":"2023-06-17T17:22:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/?p=19649"},"modified":"2025-02-25T15:54:34","modified_gmt":"2025-02-25T14:54:34","slug":"marriage-with-hair-topper","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/2023\/06\/mariage-avec-volumateur-capillaa\/","title":{"rendered":"Wearing a hair topper for your wedding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On May 6, 2023, I finally got married after 18 years of relationship with the one who is now my husband. He took \u201ca little\u201d time before proposing! I was obviously looking forward to this wedding! But I was also quite apprehensive because I have had androgenetic alopecia since I was 20 years old. So I had to find a solution to look my best on the big day \ud83d\ude09 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As you probably know, the hair topper was obviously my solution, but it didn't come without some doubts and apprehensions. I share everything in this article!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My apprehensions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My androgenetic alopecia was diagnosed when I was 20 years old. At that time, it wasn't very noticeable yet. But 10 years later, my scalp started to really thin out, and my alopecia became visible. I often found myself thinking about my future wedding with apprehension. How would I be able to feel beautiful on that day? Would I be able to achieve a decent hairstyle? All of this worried and saddened me a lot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To be honest, I even found myself resenting my partner for not proposing faster because of that. I thought that the longer he waited, the more disastrous and pathetic the result would be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But around 30, it was also the age when I wore my first hair topper. Discovering this solution was a real relief for me in my daily life. But it also removed those apprehensions related to my potential future wedding! I now knew that I could feel good that day despite my progressing alopecia over the years. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here is the state of my alopecia a few weeks before my wedding:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"888\" src=\"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/alopecie-avant-mariage-1-1024x888.jpg\" alt=\"My alopecia, before my wedding in May 2023\" class=\"wp-image-19653\" style=\"width:256px;height:222px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/alopecie-avant-mariage-1-1024x888.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/alopecie-avant-mariage-1-300x260.jpg 300w, https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/alopecie-avant-mariage-1-768x666.jpg 768w, https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/alopecie-avant-mariage-1-600x521.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It may not seem catastrophic here. But my alopecia is so extensive that it would have been really complicated to have a beautiful hairstyle. A lot of thickening powder would have been needed. And the bun would have definitely been very low in volume, which I think would have ruined the look on the wedding day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A hair topper, yes, but with what hairstyle?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was ultimately relieved to know that I would have a worthy hairstyle for the big day. But as a regular hair topper user, I also know that it can sometimes shift a bit during the day. My hairline is very sparse. Even a slight shift of a few millimeters can quickly become visible (at least to me). In my daily life, I know I have the reflex to check from time to time that everything is in place. But I knew I might not have the opportunity to do so on the big day. I was also afraid that the bun wouldn't hold up and that I would turn into a pumpkin with a toupee after midnight!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I first thought about opting for a romantic hairstyle with my hair down. Because I thought that the pressure backward would be less significant than with a voluminous bun and that a simpler structure from the start might hold up better over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But during the fittings, the hairstylist also did a trial hairstyle with a bun. And it was a revelation for me! Surprisingly, I felt my hairstyle was much more secure, and it didn't pull back at all as I had expected!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Feel free to check out the video of the two types of hairstyles I tested (French version, the English version is also online on the channel):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed alignleft is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Alopecia: Help me choose my wedding hairstyle with a hair topper!!\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qgQbL9NgfqQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I still hesitated for a long time because I didn't know in advance what it would be like on a full day as eventful as a wedding. But deep down, I felt that I wanted a bun to go with my Disney princess dress! So I decided to make my choice not based on my alopecia, the hair topper, and the stress related to it, but rather based on what I truly wanted deep down. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I took the risk of opting for the bun for the wedding!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">So, how did it go on the big day?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the big day, the hairdresser had placed about fifty pins in my bun to secure it! The hair topper didn't move an inch, from 9 AM to 5 AM. I didn't even really feel the need to check it several times during the day because I could tell it wasn't moving. I had put a bit of thickening powder on my hairline just in case to secure myself in case of a slight shift of the hair topper. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LM-52-1024x681.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19655\" style=\"width:1010px;height:671px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was so afraid that the hair topper would move, that I wouldn't feel it, and then realize later that it was visible in the photos (and that it could potentially be seen by everyone at the wedding). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But during the day and then the evening, I felt it was perfectly in place! Because a hair topper that shifts can be felt. I was able to move, dance freely, and carry my children. In short, I was perfectly free in my movements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I received over 1000 photos from the wedding. I don't know how many there are of me, but I can say that my hair topper is NOT visible in ANY of them! And that was a real relief for me. I wasn't afraid that people would notice at the wedding that I was wearing a hair topper. Everyone knows I wear one because I don't hide it. But I didn't want to see my wedding photos ruined by a poorly positioned toupee!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LM-888-1024x681.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19657\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So today I am really happy to assure you that yes, you can be perfect on the big day with a hair topper!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/LM-715-1024x681.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19656\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My advice is to choose a hairstylist who specializes in weddings and is skilled in her field. She will definitely know how to work with a hair topper, even if it's her first time with this type of product. Don't hesitate to have the roots touched up if the color is a bit lighter than yours. This will create a color match and the result will still be very natural (that's what I did with my Ana\u00efs hair topper, which is initially much lighter than my hair).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@commeundiademe7513\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Follow Comme un diad\u00e8me on YouTube.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/comme.un.diademe\/?hl=fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">And on Instagram<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/store\/\">Discover the Comme un diad\u00e8me shop.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Le 6 mai 2023, je me suis enfin mari\u00e9e apr\u00e8s 18 ans de relation avec celui qui est d\u00e9sormais mon mari. Il a mis \u00ab\u00a0un peu\u00a0\u00bb de temps avant de faire sa demande! Ce mariage, je l&rsquo;attendais \u00e9videmment avec impatience! Mais je l&rsquo;appr\u00e9hendais aussi beaucoup car je suis atteinte d&rsquo;alop\u00e9cie androg\u00e9n\u00e9tique depuis l&rsquo;\u00e2ge de 20 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":19658,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19649","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-non-classifiee"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19649","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19649"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19649\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27115,"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19649\/revisions\/27115"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19658"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/commeundiademe.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}