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<\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\nThe hair topper I am wearing here (model Ana) is 8 inches longer than my own hair, and it is much lighter. Yet, the result is completely undetectable with the hair tied up!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tip #1: Own it, stay calm, and accept compliments!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
If you decide to wear it with your hair down, it is possible that some people around you may notice a change. But keep in mind that people never directly think of a hair topper (99% of the population doesn\u2019t even know that this type of product exists!). They only see a nice change in hairstyle. And it is therefore completely natural for them to make comments about this change that they find very positive! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A common first mistake for women wearing a hair topper or wig for the first time is to seek justification. As if you had committed an offense and were ultimately suspected of hiding something serious!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Getting into justifications is, in my opinion, a mistake. Just take the compliment for what it is and say 'thank you' \ud83d\ude09 If there are questions, feel free to confirm what the person is saying to avoid getting into long, stressful discussions for you!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Examples of the most common remarks:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Oh, this change is nice, did you get highlights? Yes <\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Did you cut your hair, did you go to the hairdresser, it looks great? Yes, do you like it?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Did you change your hair color? Yes, I went to the hairdresser this weekend! <\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Did you straighten your hair? Yes, I had a treatment at the hairdresser<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
I advise against going into too many technical details so you don't find yourself in a conversation that you no longer control. Stay vague and redirect questions to the interlocutor to divert attention from your hair, if that's what you want of course \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If someone touches the tip of your hair because this stunning hair becomes tempting for some (it happened to me on the first day!), let them do it. You have nothing to fear with a hair topper Comme un diad\u00e8me, they are all made of natural hair \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you feel that the person is really suspicious, especially about the difference in density and volume (this can happen if you were really very sparse), feel free to say that you have extensions. Remember that you owe no explanations to anyone and you can also simply change the subject if it makes you too uncomfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tip #2: Keep in mind that you owe nothing to anyone and that you are free to talk about it or not<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Wearing a hair prosthesis can be a matter of intimacy. Therefore, you owe no explanations to anyone about it. It's a bit like wearing a dental prosthesis; nothing obliges you to talk about it. People who wear dental or breast prostheses owe no explanation to their colleagues or acquaintances, and the same goes for you. If it's something you want to keep to yourself, you must be fully aware that it is your right and that you are in no way obliged to account for your hairstyle or any other subject that concerns only you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You owe no explanation or justification to someone who is a bit too intrusive with these questions. You have the right to leave them in their questioning. They should move on by themselves after a while \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And after a few months or years of wearing the hair topper?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
In the beginning, we worry a lot about the idea that our surroundings will discover that we wear this type of product. However, you will see that after a few months or years, the subject may seem much lighter to you and you may spontaneously want to talk about it with your close ones and colleagues. From their reaction, you will see that there is ultimately no judgment and often very supportive reactions. This may encourage you to discuss it naturally and confidently later. Also, know that a woman who embraces her alopecia and the solutions she uses to cope with it is rarely mocked and instead exudes a lot of self-confidence!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We become unstoppable when we have confidence in ourselves! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And we can be proud to have dared to take the leap in a society where these solutions are still quite taboo. Proud not to let ourselves be defeated, to move forward and to dare to advance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Finally, never forget that we are not responsible for what happens to us, that we are legitimate in seeking a solution to our alopecia and that we have as much value as other women. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
We have the right to want to feel beautiful and to use the wonderful solutions we have at our disposal for that!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, be yourselves and take care! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Find me on my various social media for more tips! <\/p>\n\n\n\n