Everything you need to know about toppers .

All about hair toppers

We all dream of proudly sporting gorgeous, voluptuous movie star hair. Except that in real life, between fine hair, alopecia, alopecia areata, and hair loss, we understand that Mother Nature hasn't been so generous to all of us. Our hair is our most charming asset, and it goes without saying that our self-confidence takes a serious blow when our scalp becomes increasingly sparse.

However, all hope of (re)finding a dream hair is not lost for us. If you didn't know about toppers , I'll explain it all to you. After all, who better than a woman wearing a hair topper to tell you about it?

The hair topper: an undetectable beauty ally

Let's put an end to complexes!

Are you one of those people who spend long hours in front of the mirror trying to camouflage their thinning scalp? You're not alone - I used to be too. But that was before I discovered the world of hair topper !

The hair topper is the simplest, easiest and quickest way to get an immediate and safe result. No glue or adhesive: it does not damage the hair as it is clipped on with clip combs and a central comb. With just a few clicks, you'll be back to your best hair. Of course, the first steps will certainly be hesitant, even uncertain. But don't worry, I'll explain everything here. Once you get the hang of it, it's a matter of seconds.

This is what the inside of a topper looks like.

The revenge of hair supplements

Very popular in the United States, hair toppers are still not widely used in France. The reason for this is the still negative connotation of all these hair accessories, which are often, wrongly, lumped together. Hairpiece, toupee, wig: they all have a bad press and bring back an unflattering image of the time when they were crudely made and gave a look that was anything but natural.

But those days are gone. The unsightly "floppy hair" of the past has given way to high-quality, almost invisible hair supplements. Wigs and hair toppers now blend seamlessly into the hair for a natural, undetectable effect. Unlike a wig, which covers the entire head, a hair topper is only applied to the top of the scalp. Its mission? To blend seamlessly with your natural hair to add volume without damaging it.

Hair hair toppers from Comme un diadème

A hair topper yes, but not just any topper. Through the Comme un diadème collection, I want to offer you only quality products at much more affordable prices than those made in French hair salons. As you know, I have been wearing hair toppers for several years now, so I am very demanding about their quality. The result must be as natural as possible and blend perfectly with the hair, while being comfortable to wear every day.

High-quality hair

All toppers offered by Comme un diadème are made with natural Brazilian Remy hair. 

The "Rémy" designation is a quality label. This means that the hair and cuticles of each strand are oriented in the same direction on the topper. This means that the hair is not only soft and shiny, but also tangle-free and lasts longer. Conversely, "non-Remy" hair will tangle and get damaged more easily because it is assembled loosely. This second choice hair is therefore to be avoided if you want smooth and shiny hair.

A Silk top base

Ah, the Silk Top! I've already mentioned it in numerous videos. So what exactly is it? It's simply a piece of silk that mimics the scalp and is placed on top of toppers . The hair, which is integrated by hand, is knotted under the silk, completely hiding the knots. The result is completely natural and undetectable, as it mimics a real scalp. No matter where you place your part, the illusion will be complete.

Various Cap sizes

Hair hair toppers Comme un diadème are available with wide bases:

  • 15X15 (6X6 in US size)
  • 15X18 (6X7 in US size)
  • 18X18 (7X7 in US size)
  • 20X20 (8X8 in US size)
  • 23X23 (9X9 in US size)

Why? Because for women like me who want to cover up thinning areas, wide, flat bases are more suitable. This prevents the clip from catching on bald spots. It's also important to note that the wider the base, the more density it provides. So take the time to think about the type of coverage you want. At first, some women don't want to add too much density to their hair, so they prefer to start with toppers with a smaller base, such as a 15X15 or 15X18.

toppers with a 20x20 or 23x23 base are a good solution for women who have diffuse alopecia or who no longer have enough hair on the top of their head to attach the topper. This is because the wider base will extend further down the back of the head and therefore clip more easily onto areas where there is more hair.

For more details, I explain here how to choose your Cap size. However, don't panic on this point: one or the other can be just as satisfactory. I wear 15X18, 18X18, 20X20 or 23X23 bases and all four fit.

Natural hair density

Comme un Diadème offers toppers made from straight orwavy hair, with a density generally ranging from 120 to 130%. The goal here is to achieve natural, realistic volume that suits you. Density refers to the amount of hair implanted in a specific area. The higher the density, the fuller the hair will be. Comme un Diadème also offers toppers a density of 150% for those who love volume.

A wide range of hair colors

No two people have the same shade of brown or blonde. We know that the nuances can sometimes be subtle. That's why Comme un diadème offers several shades of blonde, chestnut, and brown for your toppers . In addition to the photos available on the Comme un diadème website, I regularly post videos of toppers on myInstagram page. I strongly encourage you to watch them before making a purchase, as it is easier to see the exact color in the videos. If you are unsure between two colors, I recommend choosing the lighter one, as it will blend better with your complexion, especially for brunettes. In addition, it will be easier to have it darkened later by a colorist.

For women with very little hair or hair loss, the hair topper is not suitable, since a minimum amount of material is needed to hold it in place with the clips. In this case, you should consider the Comme un diadème wigs, which also offer a very natural look.

Wig Comme un diadème

As you can see, flat or thinning hair will soon be a distant memory. The hardest part will obviously be choosing! So, are you ready to become your true self again with toppers ?

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Article written by Sylvaine Amouriaux, web editor.

70 thoughts on “Everything you need to know about hair toppers

  1. I think that says it all. I've been following Laure's YouTube channel for a while now, and she convinced me to take the plunge. Don't hesitate—it's such a life-changing experience. A thousand thanks to her for tackling this complex subject with such simplicity and empathy. Her approach restores confidence and will make life easier for many of us.

  2. What can I say to you Laure except a big thank you, thanks to your topper I am regaining my self-confidence little by little I am no longer afraid of the look of people staring at my head when I am in discussion with them, the topper is great the quality of the hair is incredibly natural my hair melts in it here is my next purchase very quickly big kisses to you I recommend you without hesitation she is very professional listening and available courage teamalopecye.

      1. Hello Madam,

        I don't offer grey hair toppers because grey turns yellow very quickly when it comes to natural hair 😉

        Laure

  3. Dorothée Bouilloc

    Hello, I have a silly question but... is it possible to remove some hair at the parting (with tweezers for example) so that it is more visible and therefore more natural? Indeed, I have the impression that it is at the parting that we see that it is not the natural hair, and it's a pity because your hair toppers look very nice and well made!
    Thanks for your reply, D

    1. Hello,

      I wouldn't recommend doing this as I think it can damage the silk top. It is possible to use hair toppers with less density (so a wider parting). The overall coverage will then be lower but the parting may look more natural. On the pictures, the parting is very straight here but it is possible to blur it a bit for a much more natural look 🙂

        1. It is possible to order a customised product, but it will not be refundable because I do not want to sell low-density products on my website because I think that they are less qualitative products (because you pay to have a minimum of hair). I assure you that the density of these products is not huge. If you change the linearity of the parting a little with a comb, it's not shocking at all (even without doing it, many women who don't lose their hair have a thin parting).
          If you are interested in a custom order, please contact me at contact@commeundiademe.com.

  4. Hello,
    I have two questions:
    -Can you play sports with a hair prosthesis hair Or do you sweat too much?
    -Are there color charts available so we can find the color that suits us best from among the models offered? I find it very difficult to choose from photos (blonde hair).
    I look forward to hearing from you.
    Best regards,
    Adèle

    1. Hello Adele,
      Yes, you can do sports with a hair prosthesis without any problem. But it will inevitably keep you a little warmer than if you had nothing. A bit like a cap 😉
      For the second question, I can help you choose your colour based on your photos and send you videos of the topper you are interested in before ordering.
      Please feel free to come back to me if you have any other questions.
      Best regards,
      Laure

  5. Hello Laure. First of all, thank you very much for your various tutorials on YouTube. They helped me to relax and take the plunge to invest in a hair prosthesis.
    I am contacting you to find out how to get a hair prosthesis covered by the CPAM (French social security). I applied for long-term illness coverage (ALD), but my health insurance company refused my request.
    What is the maximum coverage, even partial, that I can get?
    In the April 2019 text indicating 100% coverage for alopecia, does this only apply to alopecia caused by chemotherapy?
    Thank you in advance for your response, as I am in the dark.
    Florence

    1. Hello Florence,
      To my knowledge, alopecia is not considered a long-term condition. However, you can benefit from a reimbursement of 75 euros with a prescription from a dermatologist, depending on the stage of your alopecia. However, you need to buy a supplement for less than 700 euros and on a French Social Security approved website.

  6. Hello,
    Thank you for your videos! It gives us info on hair complements - installation - quality etc...
    A question: I have straight Asian hair with a layered bob and fringes. Is it possible to see the band that supports the hair when wearing the topper "Comme un diadème". Because sometimes I see on certain hair toppers you see this band under the hair of the fringe in front of the forehead.
    Thank you in advance.
    Thank you very much.

      1. Hello,
        Thank you for your reply! Great! That's great news!
        I would like to have your advice for a short plunging square topper dark brown and if there are any on your website I will place the order.
        On the other hand, there is a small anomaly on the contact form on your website "Comme un diadème" I wrote to you twice, I got a message that the CAPTCHA does not work and it blocks the sending of the email.

  7. Hello Laure,
    I'm very happy to find someone like you who dares to talk about this alopecia problem with such naturalness
    I had never thought of a topper or wig to hide my alopecia but after having tried everything I'm ready to go for it...
    The models you suggest are for long hair, whereas I would like a model for short, wavy hair
    or even curly
    Is it possible to make this type of order with you?
    See you soon

  8. Hello, Laure

    First of all, thank you so much for the quick delivery!!!! I bought a very light blonde bun to make soft updos and I am blown away by its quality!!!!
    My goodness, it's beautiful!!!!!! 🥰
    I was just wondering if you could give me some advice on how to care for it?
    Many thanks 🙂
    Alexandra

    1. Hello,
      Thank you for your positive feedback 🙂
      You can wash it (very gently) if you find that it gets a little dirty after a few months of use. A regular shampoo will do the trick.
      Laure

    2. Hello Alexandra,
      Thank you for your positive feedback.
      I think that if at any point it starts to look a little dull, you can gently wash it with shampoo 😉
      Laure

  9. Hello,
    I can't seem to contact you... an error message appears when I try to send the message.
    What can I do?
    I recently discovered your videos on YouTube and I need your help. I'm ready to take the plunge so that I no longer fear the gaze of others and can regain my self-esteem and my desire to take care of myself again, to feel like a woman and not a monster.

  10. I recently bought a Leila topper and I am delighted, Laure coloured it black like my natural hair and the colour is just perfect not to mention the quality of the hair magic!!!!
    I'm really pleased and I recommend.
    Laure is exceptional!

    1. Thank you Caroline for your positive feedback and recommendation! I'm so glad that the topper (and my coloring skills ;)), satisfied you 😘

  11. Hello
    Thank you for all your advice and videos
    I'm almost convinced and practically ready to buy
    However, I have medium-length hair and the models I've seen are all too long
    Do I need to go to a hairdresser to get it cut?
    Thank you

    1. Hello,
      I also regularly offer medium-length hair (38 to 16") 😊
      But in any case, a short visit to the hairdresser to adapt the cut to your face and to fully appropriate the topper is recommended 😉
      Laure

  12. Hello
    I am on Ibrance and gemara pills which is causing me to lose my hair and it is becoming very difficult to hide.
    I had breast cancer 5 years ago and wore a wig during my chemo but the idea of having to wear one again is quite traumatic for me and I would like to avoid going back to it.
    I currently have a short bob and would like a short topper.
    How can I see your work and your prices?
    Thank you for your answer
    SONIA

  13. Hi Laure
    I've been wearing my topper since December and it has changed my life. The way I look at myself has changed too, so much so that I wonder how to explain to this boy who came to me that it's not my real hair.
    What feedback do you get from women and what attitude do you adopt.
    Thank you for existing and giving back confidence

  14. Hello Laure,
    First of all I wanted to say a big thank you for your videos that I discovered recently on youtube, and I am one of the people who watched them one after the other with great interest.
    I have not been able to send you a message via the "contact" tab on the website, it does not work, so I am writing to you from here on your blog hoping that it will work. I would be keen to purchase a topper. So I looked at them and two colours would be closest to my hair colour, according to the pictures I saw, "MEGHAN SUNKISSED" and "MILA" (my hair colour is medium dark brown with chocolate hazel highlights). My problem is with my receding temples. As I have long hair, I would like a long topper of about 55 cm, Brazilian hair. For the cape, probably 20/20. I have registered on your website with my email and mobile details so that you can contact me, of course when you can and according to your availability and I am sure that you must be very busy. I can wait a few months of course, even six months, no problem to order this magnificent topper. Yours sincerely, Christine M(29)

    1. Hello Mrs,
      It takes a long time for 55 cm hair toppers. I need you to send me some photos in daylight to get a better idea of your colour. Could you send me your photos via the custom order form?
      Best wishes,
      Laure

  15. Hello Laure,
    I have just discovered your website and I am very happy that this problem has been tackled, even if it is not the same as mine; indeed, since the age of 14, I have been suffering from trichotillomania; yes, the stupid girl that I am had fun pulling out her hair with a lot of application, I have to admit, until I was 40; despite the fact that I stopped, which was very difficult, I was not rewarded for my efforts because now my "baldness" (I hate this word and I have great difficulty pronouncing it) is very visible and has been for a long time... I should have used a topper years ago. What is holding me back from buying one is being able to wear it outside of my home, well, especially at work because obviously, working in a small company, people won't think "the bald girl" but "the girl with the wig" and the look on my colleagues' and boss' faces scares me because yes, they will see that my head has changed. Ah, the look of others is my whole life, that.... Your videos make me feel so good...
    Jacqueline

    1. Hello Jacqueline,
      Thank you for your testimony! People won't think "the girl with the wig", but "the person who found an aesthetic solution to her problem! And above all, it is not important what your colleagues and boss will think, but how you feel about yourself. If you take responsibility for this solution, people won't find anything wrong with it. There is nothing shameful or wrong with wearing a hair topper, thousands of women do it all over France. It's not a taboo product anymore 😉

      1. Hello Laure,
        Thank you for your kind and encouraging reply! Indeed, the important thing is to feel better and not to worry about others... As much as I think I have no problem wearing a topper in my everyday life at home and outside, I am put off by it at work (I do not know why). But I'm thinking about it more and more and getting myself in shape. Anyway, I don't have much choice anymore.
        I think I'll be tempted by a topper, I really like the "Cathy" model. I must say that there is a great choice on your website. I would also like to thank you for having had the good idea to create this website. As for your videos, I often burst out laughing when I watch them... what a sense of humour and how good it makes me feel...
        I live in Belgium. I will look into whether it is possible to order from your website from my home.
        Jacqueline

        1. Hello Jacqueline,
          Comme un diadème delivered to Belgium without any problem. If you want, you can email me photos of your hair in daylight via the form on the website. I will be able to confirm the colour if you wish, because sometimes it's not easy not to make mistakes on the internet 😊
          So don't hesitate to come back to me if you have any questions or need advice.
          I wish you a good day.
          Laure

          1. Hello Laure,
            I'm finally coming back to you with my topper which has completely changed my life. As I feel good with it, I wouldn't take it off if I listened to myself... I wore it during my holidays to get used to it and when I went back to work, I didn't notice that someone was staring at my skull especially and that they had seen something. Anyway, I feel so comfortable with it that it didn't matter in the end. It's just the way it is and it's my choice (yes, and I'm the one saying that!). I never thought I would react this way). I'm so glad I'm wearing this topper, I feel so much better; I'm no longer afraid to leave my house and wonder what people would think when they see me. Thank you so much for your website and your videos which have helped me so much and have gradually allowed me to consider wearing a topper... I couldn't do without it now. Your videos should be reimbursed by the health insurance company as they have done me so much good. Thank you again for this. However, I have to go to the dentist soon and I was wondering if there would be a problem with the clips of the topper in case of an X-ray? I'll see. Good luck with your website and thanks again.
            Jacqueline

  16. Hello Laure, thank you very much for your work, it is thanks to young women like you that certain difficulties are easier to live with and alopecia is a major one. I can see myself so much in all your feelings, your fears that you mentioned before wearing a topper, such as the fear of a ray of sunlight, the little vicious spotlight placed as if by chance above my head, the furtive and insistent looks at the same time, in short, all these pains that even our loved ones do not suspect. And the fact of discovering others who live this and who, despite the great suffering, talk about it with even small points of humour makes it lighter. I'm not sure I'm ready but I'd love to feel better so before I take the plunge, here are some questions. Some of them will seem obvious or a bit silly but I need to ask them.
    1. I have curly hair, does it look as natural?
    Do I risk the famous comical but nightmarish scene in a strong wind?
    3. Can I go swimming with it?
    4. Can you put your hair up with a clip or in a ponytail?
    5. I didn't really understand the difference between Brazilian and European hair.
    Thank you very much for your answers.
    I wish you a very nice day and if one day you need a curly model for a video, think of me, it can open the horizon to many other people.😉😉

    1. Thank you for your comment. There are other articles on the Blog if you are interested. You can also check my YouTube channel, Comme un diadème, where you will find some videos in English. There is also the podcast My Fake Hair Journey if you prefer audio 😉 Laure

  17. Hello,
    Thank you for sharing your experience! I suffer from AAG and can't take it anymore. So I'm going to take the plunge and get topper, but I don't know where to go and don't want to order online. Do you have any reliable addresses in the eastern part of France? Around Nancy.
    Thank you very much.

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At Comme un diadème, you will receive personal support. You can send any questions you may have to contact@commeundiademe.com via the contact form. In addition, you can send photos of your hair (or alopecia) via the support form so that we can advise you on the colour, Cap size or length of the hair topper/wig.

Comme un diadème does not have a shop or business premises, it is only an e-commerce website. However, you are not alone in your purchase and you can be advised on colour, base size and length based on your photos by sending them via the support form. After ordering the topper, you can then try it on at home and send it back if it doesn't suit you, respecting the 14-day withdrawal period.

French Social Security does not reimburse hair prostheses made of natural hair that cost more than 700 euros.

Payment in 4 installments with no fees is possible via PayPal.

All out-of-stock models are restocked on a regular basis. However, it is not possible to give a precise restocking time for each model. If you are interested in a particular model, we advise you to subscribe to the out-of-stock alerts in order to receive an e-mail as soon as the product is available again on the website.

Orders are delivered within 10 days in mainland France, Belgium, and Switzerland. For international orders, delivery times may be slightly longer.

You must exercise your right of withdrawal using the withdrawal form. Once you have returned the product, you will be refunded within 10 days of its receipt at the Comme un diadème premises.

Custom orders are possible at Comme un diadème. To do so, please feel free to submit a request via the support form.
We use natural Brazilian "Remy" hair. The term "Remy" means that the hair and the cuticles of the strand are oriented in the same direction on the hair topper. This is in contrast to non-Rémy hair, which is assembled loosely. They are therefore more prone to tangling and damage.

You should choose the Cap size of the topper according to the extent of your alopecia and the density of hair you wish to acquire. It is preferable that the clips are not attached in the area of alopecia where the scalp can be quite sensitive. In addition, extensive alopecia will require the addition of a high density of hair to compensate for the initial low density.

For extensive alopecia, we recommend bases measuring 18 × 18 cm or 20 × 20 cm. These bases will provide effective coverage, density, and comfort. Larger bases are available for very extensive alopecia.

Smaller bases (15×15 cm) will give your hair a little less density. But they will make it easier to tie your hair up in a high ponytail.

To determine your wig size, please refer to the chart below.

table-size-wig

We offer hair toppers with a density between 120 and 130%. This density is considered standard by international retailers.

The hair is straight. Except when it is indicated in the product description and title that the model is naturally wavy or curly.

The life span of a topper will partly depend on how well it is cared for. The typical life span is between one and two years. To increase the life of your topper, you should not wash it too frequently.

The topper should be brushed out carefully after wearing. It is convenient to place it on a wig head. This way, the hair does not get a bad fold before the next use.

Hair should not be washed too frequently. Every 4 weeks or more is a good frequency. Close the clips before washing the hair and detangle the hair before and after washing. You can use a mild shampoo for colored hair followed by conditioner. Orchid Oil shampoo and Brazilian Keratin conditioner have proven to be effective!

Every four shampoos, you can apply Silicon Mix, available on Amazon. This will restore your hair's original shine.

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If you have dry ends, we recommend adding a little argan oil to moisturize the hair fiber.

Natural hair can be heated, straightened, and curled without any problems. However, as with your own hair, you should not overdo it so as not to damage the hair fiber.

The cork wig head and its display stand are essential for easy drying and styling of the hair topper's hair. https://amzn.to/2tg50cJ The T-pin will allow you to attach the hair topper to the cork wig head before blow drying or curling the hair. https://amzn.to/2uW5W6q
Hair hair topper has usually undergone complex bleaching and colouring processes before achieving its final colour. This hair has therefore been sensitised. It may react in an unexpected way to a colouring or bleaching process. It is usually possible to darken a hair topper. However, it is not recommended to bleach it as this may alter the hair. Therefore, when in doubt between two shades as to which hair colour to choose, it is best to choose the lighter shade of hair. In any case, it is important to have the hair topper coloured or bleached by a professional colourist who is used to working with this type of hair. Hair toppers Comme un diadème are sold uncut. Therefore, at first try, the hair topper may not seem to fit your face and/or hairstyle. However, a rough piece needs to be made to fit you completely. We therefore recommend that, if the basic colour, length and size are suitable for you, you have the hair topper cut by a hairdresser so that it can blend in completely naturally with your own hair.

Advice

Choosing a hair topper or a wig from a distance is not always easy. However, with Comme un diadème, you have the possibility to be accompanied in your approach and to benefit from a personalized accompaniment.

Indeed, if you would like advice on the colour, the Cap size, the length of your hair complement or even more general advice on the type of product most appropriate for your alopecia, you can send us below 3 photos of your hair/alopecia in daylight and we will advise you.

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You can also send a strand of your hair for direct comparison with the various Comme un diadème references by mail to the following address:
Comme un diadème S.A.S.
288A Montée Rouge
30310 Vergèze

FRANCE

You will receive a reply within five business days.

Custom order

Are you interested in a model that is not available in the Comme un diadème catalog?

At Comme un diadème, custom orders for out-of-stock products are possible.

It is important to note that custom orders are not eligible for return as they are made at the specific request of the customer. In addition, delivery times may be long for this type of order (approximately 3 months).

Comme un diadème asks that you only request a quote if you are genuinely interested in the product and the terms of a custom order, so as not to overload suppliers with requests that will not be fulfilled. We thank you for your understanding.

If you are interested in a custom order:

After you submit your custom order request, a quote will be sent to you within 10 days. This quote will be valid for 3 weeks after receipt, as supplier prices tend to change over time. Once you have agreed to the quote, a product sheet will be created specifically for you. Once payment has been received, the product will be ordered directly from the suppliers. It will be sent to you as soon as it is received at the Comme un diadème premises.

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