We all dream of proudly sporting beautiful, voluptuous movie star hair. But in real life, between thinning hair, alopecia, alopecia and hair loss, we've come to realise that Mother Nature hasn't been as generous with us all. Hair is our most charming asset and it goes without saying that our self-confidence takes a big hit when our scalp becomes increasingly thin.
However, all hope of (re)finding a dream hair is not lost for us. If you didn't know about toppers , I'll explain it all to you. After all, who better than a woman wearing a hair topper to tell you about it?
The hair topper: an undetectable beauty ally
No more complexes
Are you one of those people who spend long hours in front of the mirror trying to camouflage their thinning scalp areas? You're not alone, I was too. But that was before I discovered the world of hair topper!
The hair topper is the simplest, easiest and quickest way to get an immediate and safe result. No glue or adhesive: it does not damage the hair as it is clipped on with clip combs and a central comb. With just a few clicks, you'll be back to your best hair. Of course, the first steps will certainly be hesitant, even uncertain. But don't worry, I'll explain everything here. Once you get the hang of it, it's a matter of seconds.
The revenge of hair supplements
Very popular in the United States, hair toppers are still not widely used in France. The reason for this is the still negative connotation of all these hair accessories, which are often, wrongly, lumped together. Hairpiece, toupee, wig: they all have a bad press and bring back an unflattering image of the time when they were crudely made and gave a look that was anything but natural.
But those days are gone. The unsightly "floppy hair" of the past has given way to high-quality, almost invisible hair supplements. Wigs and hair toppers now blend seamlessly into the hair for a natural, undetectable effect. Unlike a wig, which covers the entire head, a hair topper is only applied to the top of the scalp. Its mission? To blend seamlessly with your natural hair to add volume without damaging it.
Hair hair toppers from Comme un diadème
A hair topper yes, but not just any topper. Through the Comme un diadème collection, I want to offer you only quality products at much more affordable prices than those made in French hair salons. As you know, I have been wearing hair toppers for several years now, so I am very demanding about their quality. The result must be as natural as possible and blend perfectly with the hair, while being comfortable to wear every day.
Quality hair
All toppers hair products offered by Comme un diadème are made with natural Remy Brazilian hair.
The "Rémy" designation is a quality label. This means that the hair and cuticles of each strand are oriented in the same direction on the topper. This means that the hair is not only soft and shiny, but also tangle-free and lasts longer. Conversely, "non-Remy" hair will tangle and get damaged more easily because it is assembled loosely. This second choice hair is therefore to be avoided if you want smooth and shiny hair.
A Silk top base
Ah the silk top! I've already talked about it in many videos, but I insist: a silk top base, or nothing! What is it? It is simply a piece of silk that imitates the scalp and is placed on top of the toppers hair. The hair, integrated by hand, is knotted under the silk, which completely hides the knots. The result is completely natural and undetectable since it imitates a real scalp. No matter where you place your parting, the illusion will be total.
Various Cap sizes
Hair hair toppers Comme un diadème are available with wide bases:
- 15X15 (6X6 in American size)
- 15X18 (6X7 in American size)
- 18X18 (7X7 in American size)
- 20X20 (8X8 in American size)
- 23X23 (9X9 in American size)
Why? Because for women like me who want to hide thinning areas, wide, flat bases are more suitable. This way, it avoids clipping in bald areas. Also, you should know that the wider the base, the more density it brings. So take the time to ask yourself what kind of coverage you want. At first, some women don't want to add too much density to their hair, so they prefer to start with toppers hair with a smaller base, such as a 15X15 or 15X18.
Leq
The toppers capillaries with a base size of 20X20 or 23X23 will be a good solution for women who have diffuse alopecia or who do not have enough hair on the top of the head to fix the topper. Indeed, the wider base will go lower on the back of the head and will therefore clip more easily on areas where there is more hair.
For more details, I explain here how to choose your Cap size. However, don't panic on this point: one or the other can be just as satisfactory. I wear 15X18, 18X18, 20X20 or 23X23 bases and all four fit.
Natural hair density
Comme un Diadème offers toppers capillaries made of straight or curly hair (wavy) with a density generally ranging from 120 to 130%. Here, the objective is to have a natural and realistic volume that looks like you. The density corresponds to the quantity of hair implanted on a precise area. The higher the density, the fuller the hair. Comme un diadème also offers toppers with a density of 150%, for volume lovers.
A wide choice of hair colours
No one has the same brown and no one has the same blonde. We know: shades can be subtle. That's why Comme un diadème offers you several shades of blond, chestnut and brown for your toppers hair. In addition to the photos available on the Comme un diadème website, I regularly post videos of toppers hair on my Instagram page. I highly encourage you to watch them before you make a purchase, as it's easier to get a feel for the exact color with the videos. If you're in doubt between two colors, I recommend getting the lighter one, as it will match your skin tone better, especially for brunettes. Moreover, it will be easier to have it darkened later by a hair colorist.
For women with very little hair or hair loss, the hair topper is not suitable, since a minimum amount of material is needed to hold it in place with the clips. In this case, you should consider the Comme un diadème wigs, which also offer a very natural look.
As you can see, hair without volume or thinning will soon be a distant memory. The hardest part will obviously be choosing! So, are you ready to become the woman you are with toppers ?
Article written by Sylvaine Amouriaux, web editor.
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I think that says it all. I've been following Laure's channel on you tube for a while and she convinced me to take the plunge. It's so life-changing that you shouldn't hesitate. Thank you so much for having tackled this not so simple subject with simplicity and empathy. Her approach restores confidence and will make life easier for many of us.
Thank you 😘
What can I say to you Laure except a big thank you, thanks to your topper I am regaining my self-confidence little by little I am no longer afraid of the look of people staring at my head when I am in discussion with them, the topper is great the quality of the hair is incredibly natural my hair melts in it here is my next purchase very quickly big kisses to you I recommend you without hesitation she is very professional listening and available courage teamalopecye.
Thank you for your message! It makes me really happy 😊
Do you have the grey colour?
Good morning, Madam,
I don't offer grey hair toppers because grey turns yellow very quickly when it comes to natural hair 😉
Laure
But it's a shame 😢
Hello, I have a silly question but... is it possible to remove some hair at the parting (with tweezers for example) so that it is more visible and therefore more natural? Indeed, I have the impression that it is at the parting that we see that it is not the natural hair, and it's a pity because your hair toppers look very nice and well made!
Thanks for your reply, D
Hello,
I wouldn't recommend doing this as I think it can damage the silk top. It is possible to use hair toppers with less density (so a wider parting). The overall coverage will then be lower but the parting may look more natural. On the pictures, the parting is very straight here but it is possible to blur it a bit for a much more natural look 🙂
@ Laure, is it possible to have a lesser density, and therefore a more natural stripe, do you sell them?
It is possible to order a customised product, but it will not be refundable because I do not want to sell low-density products on my website because I think that they are less qualitative products (because you pay to have a minimum of hair). I assure you that the density of these products is not huge. If you change the linearity of the parting a little with a comb, it's not shocking at all (even without doing it, many women who don't lose their hair have a thin parting).
If you are interested in a custom order, please contact me at contact@commeundiademe.com.
I totally agree with Dorothée, I have the same thought as you, it's a pity that they put the parting so narrow,
Hello,
I have two questions:
Can we do sports with a prosthesis? hair or do we sweat too much?
-Is there a color chart available to find the color that suits you best among the proposed models? I find it very difficult to choose from a photo (blonde hair)
I look forward to hearing from you,
Sincerely,
Adèle
It's done 🙂
Hello Adele,
Yes, you can do sports with a hair prosthesis without any problem. But it will inevitably keep you a little warmer than if you had nothing. A bit like a cap 😉
For the second question, I can help you choose your colour based on your photos and send you videos of the topper you are interested in before ordering.
Please feel free to come back to me if you have any other questions.
Best regards,
Laure
Hello Laure. First of all, thank you very much for your various tutorials on youtube. They allowed me to get over the fear and to invest in a prosthesis hair.
I come to you to know how to get a reimbursement by the CPAM for a prosthesis hair. I made a request for a long term condition (ALD) which was refused by my health insurance company.
What can be the coverage even partial of this one.
In the text of April 2019 indicating a 100% coverage of alopecia, should it read alopecia only due to chemo?
Thank you for your next answer because I am in the dark.
Florence
Hello Florence,
To my knowledge, alopecia is not considered a long-term condition. However, you can benefit from a reimbursement of 75 euros with a prescription from a dermatologist, depending on the stage of your alopecia. However, you need to buy a supplement for less than 700 euros and on a French Social Security approved website.
Hello,
Thank you for your videos! It gives us info on hair complements - installation - quality etc...
A question: I have straight Asian hair with a layered bob and fringes. Is it possible to see the band that supports the hair when wearing the topper "Comme un diadème". Because sometimes I see on certain hair toppers you see this band under the hair of the fringe in front of the forehead.
Thank you in advance.
Thank you very much.
Hello,
No, luckily you can't see anything at all 😉
Laure
Hello,
Thank you for your reply! Great! That's great news!
I would like to have your advice for a short plunging square topper dark brown and if there are any on your website I will place the order.
On the other hand, there is a small anomaly on the contact form on your website "Comme un diadème" I wrote to you twice, I got a message that the CAPTCHA does not work and it blocks the sending of the email.
Hello I would like to have some information about the hair topper please
Hello,
Please feel free to email any questions you may have to contact@commeundiademe.com
If you want advice on colour, please send me photos of your hair in daylight.
Laure
Hello,
Do not hesitate to send me an email with all your questions to contact@commeundiademe.com
Laure
Hello Laure,
I'm very happy to find someone like you who dares to talk about this alopecia problem with such naturalness
I had never thought of a topper or wig to hide my alopecia but after having tried everything I'm ready to go for it...
The models you suggest are for long hair, whereas I would like a model for short, wavy hair
or even curly
Is it possible to make this type of order with you?
See you soon
Hello Patricia,
Yes, it is possible. Do not hesitate to contact me at contact@commeundiademe.com.
Laure
Hello,
Is it possible to cut fringes with a hair topper? And if so, can I ask for it when I order? Thank you for your answer.
Hello,
No, it's better to have it cut directly on you by a hairdresser so that the fringes fit perfectly on your face.
Laure
Hello Laure
First of all a big thank you for the fast delivery !!!! I bought a very light blonde bun to make soft buns and I am bluffed by its quality !!!!
My God it's beautiful !!!!!! 🥰
I was just wondering if you could advise me on how to care for it in use?
A thousand thanks 🙂
Alexandra
Hello,
Thank you for your positive feedback 🙂
You can wash it (very gently) if you notice after a few months of use that it is a bit dirty. A regular shampoo will do the trick.
Laure
Hello Alexandra,
Thank you for your positive feedback.
I think if at any point it gets a bit dull over time, you can gently wash it out with a shampoo 😉
Laure
Hello
The topper, how long does it last please?
Thank you
Hello,
About 2 years.
Laure
Hello
The topper, how long does it last please?
Thank you
About two years 😉
Hello,
I will need some information before I place my first order...
Hello,
Please feel free to send me your questions at contact@commeundiademe.com.
If you would like advice on colour, please send me photos of your hair in daylight.
Laure
Hello,
I can't get in touch with you...an error message is displayed when validating the message.
What can I do?
I discovered your videos on Youtube recently and I need your help. I am ready to take the step to no longer fear the gaze of others and to be able to regain my self-esteem and my desire to take care of myself again, to feel like a woman and not a monster.
Hello,
You can send me an email from your own mailbox at contact@commeundiademe.com.
If you want advice on colour, please send me a photo of your hair in daylight.
And you are definitely not a monster.
Laure
I recently bought a Leila topper and I am delighted, Laure coloured it black like my natural hair and the colour is just perfect not to mention the quality of the hair magic!!!!
I'm really pleased and I recommend.
Laure is exceptional!
Thank you Caroline for your positive feedback and recommendation! I'm so glad that the topper (and my coloring skills ;)), satisfied you 😘
It's a pity that you don't make a payment with several monthly instalments.
Hello
Thank you for all your advice and your videos
I am almost convinced and almost ready to buy
However, I have medium-length hair and the models I have seen are all too long
Do I need to go back to the hairdresser for a cut?
Thanks
Hello,
I also regularly offer medium-length hair (38 to 16") 😊
But in any case, a short visit to the hairdresser to adapt the cut to your face and to fully appropriate the topper is recommended 😉
Laure
Hello
I am on Ibrance and gemara pills which is causing me to lose my hair and it is becoming very difficult to hide.
I had breast cancer 5 years ago and wore a wig during my chemo but the idea of having to wear one again is quite traumatic for me and I would like to avoid going back to it.
I currently have a short bob and would like a short topper.
How can I see your work and your prices?
Thank you for your answer
SONIA
Hello,
The prices are in the shop section of the website, on each product sheet 🙂
Laure
Hi Laure
I've been wearing my topper since December and it has changed my life. The way I look at myself has changed too, so much so that I wonder how to explain to this boy who came to me that it's not my real hair.
What feedback do you get from women and what attitude do you adopt.
Thank you for existing and giving back confidence
Hello Laure,
First of all I wanted to say a big thank you for your videos that I discovered recently on youtube, and I am one of the people who watched them one after the other with great interest.
I have not been able to send you a message via the "contact" tab on the website, it does not work, so I am writing to you from here on your blog hoping that it will work. I would be keen to purchase a topper. So I looked at them and two colours would be closest to my hair colour, according to the pictures I saw, "MEGHAN SUNKISSED" and "MILA" (my hair colour is medium dark brown with chocolate hazel highlights). My problem is with my receding temples. As I have long hair, I would like a long topper of about 55 cm, Brazilian hair. For the cape, probably 20/20. I have registered on your website with my email and mobile details so that you can contact me, of course when you can and according to your availability and I am sure that you must be very busy. I can wait a few months of course, even six months, no problem to order this magnificent topper. Yours sincerely, Christine M(29)
Hello Mrs,
It takes a long time for 55 cm hair toppers. I need you to send me some photos in daylight to get a better idea of your colour. Could you send me your photos via the custom order form?
Best wishes,
Laure
Hello Laure,
I have just discovered your website and I am very happy that this problem has been tackled, even if it is not the same as mine; indeed, since the age of 14, I have been suffering from trichotillomania; yes, the stupid girl that I am had fun pulling out her hair with a lot of application, I have to admit, until I was 40; despite the fact that I stopped, which was very difficult, I was not rewarded for my efforts because now my "baldness" (I hate this word and I have great difficulty pronouncing it) is very visible and has been for a long time... I should have used a topper years ago. What is holding me back from buying one is being able to wear it outside of my home, well, especially at work because obviously, working in a small company, people won't think "the bald girl" but "the girl with the wig" and the look on my colleagues' and boss' faces scares me because yes, they will see that my head has changed. Ah, the look of others is my whole life, that.... Your videos make me feel so good...
Jacqueline
Hello Jacqueline,
Thank you for your testimony! People won't think "the girl with the wig", but "the person who found an aesthetic solution to her problem! And above all, it is not important what your colleagues and boss will think, but how you feel about yourself. If you take responsibility for this solution, people won't find anything wrong with it. There is nothing shameful or wrong with wearing a hair topper, thousands of women do it all over France. It's not a taboo product anymore 😉
Hello Laure,
Thank you for your kind and encouraging reply! Indeed, the important thing is to feel better and not to worry about others... As much as I think I have no problem wearing a topper in my everyday life at home and outside, I am put off by it at work (I do not know why). But I'm thinking about it more and more and getting myself in shape. Anyway, I don't have much choice anymore.
I think I'll be tempted by a topper, I really like the "Cathy" model. I must say that there is a great choice on your website. I would also like to thank you for having had the good idea to create this website. As for your videos, I often burst out laughing when I watch them... what a sense of humour and how good it makes me feel...
I live in Belgium. I will look into whether it is possible to order from your website from my home.
Jacqueline
Hello Jacqueline,
Comme un diadème delivered to Belgium without any problem. If you want, you can email me photos of your hair in daylight via the form on the website. I will be able to confirm the colour if you wish, because sometimes it's not easy not to make mistakes on the internet 😊
So don't hesitate to come back to me if you have any questions or need advice.
I wish you a good day.
Laure
Hello Laure,
I'm finally coming back to you with my topper which has completely changed my life. As I feel good with it, I wouldn't take it off if I listened to myself... I wore it during my holidays to get used to it and when I went back to work, I didn't notice that someone was staring at my skull especially and that they had seen something. Anyway, I feel so comfortable with it that it didn't matter in the end. It's just the way it is and it's my choice (yes, and I'm the one saying that!). I never thought I would react this way). I'm so glad I'm wearing this topper, I feel so much better; I'm no longer afraid to leave my house and wonder what people would think when they see me. Thank you so much for your website and your videos which have helped me so much and have gradually allowed me to consider wearing a topper... I couldn't do without it now. Your videos should be reimbursed by the health insurance company as they have done me so much good. Thank you again for this. However, I have to go to the dentist soon and I was wondering if there would be a problem with the clips of the topper in case of an X-ray? I'll see. Good luck with your website and thanks again.
Jacqueline
Hello Laure, thank you very much for your work, it is thanks to young women like you that certain difficulties are easier to live with and alopecia is a major one. I can see myself so much in all your feelings, your fears that you mentioned before wearing a topper, such as the fear of a ray of sunlight, the little vicious spotlight placed as if by chance above my head, the furtive and insistent looks at the same time, in short, all these pains that even our loved ones do not suspect. And the fact of discovering others who live this and who, despite the great suffering, talk about it with even small points of humour makes it lighter. I'm not sure I'm ready but I'd love to feel better so before I take the plunge, here are some questions. Some of them will seem obvious or a bit silly but I need to ask them.
1. I have curly hair, does it look as natural?
Do I risk the famous comical but nightmarish scene in a strong wind?
3. Can I go swimming with it?
4. Can you put your hair up with a clip or in a ponytail?
5. I didn't really understand the difference between Brazilian and European hair.
Thank you very much for your answers.
I wish you a very nice day and if one day you need a curly model for a video, think of me, it can open the horizon to many other people.😉😉
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Thank you for your comment. There are other article on the Blog if you are interested. You can also check my YouTube channel, Comme un diadème, where you will find some videos in english. There is also the podcast My Fake hair journey if you prefer audio 😉 Laure
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Hello,
Thank you for sharing your experience! I suffer from AAG and can't take it anymore. So I'm going to topper, but I don't know where to go and I don't want to order online. Do you have any reliable addresses in the east of France? Towards Nancy.
Thank you very much.
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